Prevention: the roommate agreement
Most roommate conflict is a disagreement about expectations that no one said out loud. The agreement you fill out in the first week — sleep and wake times, guests, borrowing, sharing food, cleaning, quiet hours, how you will raise it when something bugs you — is the reference you come back to. Do it even with a close friend, and redo it if things shift.
Raise it early and directly
A small annoyance addressed in week two ("hey, can we figure out a system for the sink?") is a five-minute conversation. The same thing after two months of silent resentment is a blowup. Be specific and about the behavior, not the person: "the light being on past 1 a.m. is making it hard to sleep" beats "you're inconsiderate."
Have the conversation well
Pick a neutral time when you are both calm, not mid-irritation. Say what you have noticed, how it affects you, and what you are asking for. Then actually listen to their side — they may have a constraint you do not know about. Aim for one or two concrete changes you both agree to, and check back in a week.
When to bring in your RA
If a direct conversation has not worked, or you are not comfortable having it alone, your resident assistant can facilitate a mediated conversation — a structured sit-down with a neutral third person. This is a normal part of their job, not tattling. A safety issue (threats, someone feeling unsafe, harassment) is different: report it immediately, do not try to mediate it.
Room changes
If mediation does not resolve it, a room change is possible once the room-change period opens each term (there is usually a freeze for the first few weeks). You submit a request through Residence Life; they work with open spaces and both students' situations. It is not instant and you may not get your first choice of new space, but a genuinely unworkable situation does get addressed.
If it is more serious
Bias or harassment based on identity, threats, theft, or any conduct that violates the housing agreement or the student code goes to Residence Life and the conduct process, not the room-change queue. A student who does not feel safe can request an emergency relocation while it is sorted out.
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